White people be crazy!: DRAMA! OMG!!!!
I’m not above posting “high school bullshit” on the internet. I’ve done it before and I’ll do it again. Especially because I’ve never been under the ridiculous impression that drama somehow is confined only to high school and ends when you graduate. People who think that have always bothered me.
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Look Kristina, I don’t think Elisabeth is “choosing” me over Pam or anyone else. I don’t own her and I certainly don’t pretend to. I’ve never told her that she shouldn’t be hanging out with Pam or that Pam can’t come over or anything like that. I see my friends plenty; I encourage Elisabeth to do the same. She’s a grown woman and is entitled to spend time with whoever she wants. Bear in mind that most days of the week, her and I don’t even have a lot of interaction-Elisabeth has been busting her ass over sociology homework. It’s unfortunate that we started dating as Elisabeth was starting a stressful school term, because it seems to have given you guys the impression that she and I spend all hours in isolation from the rest of the world, which isn’t the case. I’m not even in town this week. Elisabeth has a full class load, so the time she spends on campus alone eats up a lot of her time. Not to mention with her mom gone, a greater burden of housework has fallen on her. Granted, I help with some of that, but I don’t think tag teaming the dishes falls under the category of “fucking” or “doing drugs.” Really, we don’t spend all our time fucking in an opium den. I’m not the entity eating up all of Elisabeth’s time; her class load is.
On a more personal note, I wonder why I was included in your tag line. It feels as though you’re insinuating that I somehow had a part in this, or am somehow encouraging a falling out between Pam and Elisabeth, which I’m not. I’m actually a bit insulted, considering I happen to enjoy both yours and Pam’s company, and I can’t recall anything I’ve done or said that would embitter you or Pam towards me. If you two feel as though I’m somehow the bad guy, you’re more than welcome to talk about it with me.
